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Explained some of the conflicts...
"I was impressed with the correctness of the matrix findings. It explained some of the conflicts I have been having and validated some of my perceptions. It is an excellent source of practical advice. I think that one should not take it as a pass/fail test but rather a practical guide for potential conflicts that arise when our hearts fall short of compassionate loving."
Artemis
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We both had multiple marriages and never thought it was possible...
"We were introduced by Frank Seifert in March, 1997. We married on July 4, 1999. That date was more than a symbol. We'd both had multiple marriages and never thought it was possible to have one that worked. What we share now is magical. Just like MatchMatrix says, the four emotional traits give us the tools to work out our differences. Thank you so much for this most cherished gift of love."
Doug & Alice Hoover - San Diego, CA
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Note from the editor..."The Matrix is uncanny"...
The following is a note that preceded a Vision article published in May 2003. The assistant publisher said this is the first time she felt compelled to write such an introduction.
"Editors Note: Read This. Why? Because when I spoke with Frank Seifert on the phone, he used the MATRIX to tell me--without knowing anything about me or my family but our names and birthdays--that of all my family members, I communicated most easily with my younger brother. This could have just been a good guess, but to go on and say that it was because of our tendency to easily express emotions in words whereas the rest of the family is way more logic based, a guess was no longer an option. He then said that my sister was very high strung, and although her energy was good for her career, it was something that would present a difficulty in many kinds of relationships, and he was right on the money. My mom is a non-stop worker and my older brother has stamina because he knows how to take breaks. He knew all of this. Read on, the MATRIX is uncanny."
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I've never had such a connected relationship...
"I am still dating Paula, she has the same exact profile as I do, and it is pretty mind boggling. We have some conflicts, but with the benefit of the four emotional alignments we work it out every time. I've never had such a connected relationship experience. When I got back from lunch today, she had sent a dozen long stem white roses to my clinic. It certainly is one of the nicest gestures anyone has ever made towards me."
H.R. Ruderfer, D.C.
Chapel Hill, NC
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Its great, its awesome, its scary...
"You know the pairing I ran? Well he and I have hit it off sooooooo well. Its great, its awesome, its scary. The communication is almost psychic. As far as activity level, well if there is a difference I haven't seen it yet other than me getting up a lot earlier and easier then him. As far as the sexual alignment......WOW!"
R.E.
Denver, CO
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I really thought something was wrong with me all these years...
"MatchMatrix is incredible! I truly appreciate your help in better understanding my relationship difficulties with my parents. My mom and dad are both "Emotional" communicators and I am a "Logical". I really thought something was wrong with me all these years. Now I realize that I just have a different communication style than my parents. I've learned to accept the differences."
T. Simon
Denver, CO
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Internet dating sites give good info... but MatchMatrix is the real qualifier...
"The pictures and questionnaires on the Internet dating sites give good information but MatchMatrix is the real qualifier. In minutes MatchMatrix evaluated 20 women I submitted and identified the four I'm emotionally aligned with. It's terrific."
H.R.
Chapel Hill, NC
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...they were the most compatible couple I know of so far...
"Dear MatchMatrix
After a year and a half of dating and intimacy, my tall, blond, beautiful, college senior, 23 year old daughter, Angela, decided last month to move out of her father's house in Carlsbad, where she has lived since day one. She moved in with her 28 year old boyfriend, Adam. According to MatchMatrix they are great match for each other.
Angela & Adam are successfully completing their first month together of sharing a cozy 2 bedroom apartment. After all the initial shock of moving trauma and expense, down-sizing, real "closeness", compromises and agreements, and sharing the limited space for pets, bicycles, a king size bed, and all their new furniture and stuff, they were both quite relieved when I presented their MatchMatrix report to them.
I read aloud to them during dinner about the Lifestyle Traits and what it all meant. They were both quite pleased to learn that they were very much compatible over the long term. I told them they were the most compatible couple I know of so far.
My daughter wants to have "one" successful marriage like her boyfriends parents. She says it makes the family reunions, genealogy, and life so much less complicated when everybody marries only once.
Sincerely,
Francine Fox
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To find my perfectly aligned match...heaven pales to where I am...
"Thank you!!!! MY, my...what one like soul can do to the soul of another. To find my perfectly aligned match...heaven pales to where I am and where I am going...if the whole world was matched to another as I am with this other being...there would be no war...no famine...just peace and love...it is that simple... You wanted a testimonial...AND there it is my friend...it changes all...and changes nothing...the true dichotomy of love..."
Dr. John J. Conrardy
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As a psychiatrist I was most impressed by the accuracy of the Matrix...
"I found Match Matrix to be quite remarkable and fascinating. Being trained in the hard sciences I tend to look for verifiable proof to support a system of analysis. However, as a psychiatrist I have learned to appreciate valid art forms when they accurately reflect my own experience. MatchMatrix appears to be such an art form.
As a psychiatrist I was most impressed by the accuracy of the Matrix information and the depth of the analysis of a number of my close personal relationships. It's simple, direct and addresses important elements of human interaction. I can see a broad and valuable application for the Matrix as a tool for many in their personal, family and business relationships."
G. E. Miller, M.D.
Santa Barbara, CA
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...accurate information from only a birth date ...
"Thank you for the updated info on my group number. I found the info from MatchMatrix to correlate pretty well to my experience of myself. I am very interested in your system because if it is generally accurate, how great is that? I already submitted the date for a guy I've been dating, and it seemed pretty accurate for what I've been observing. I don't know him well enough or long enough to know about the financial scale, but the others matched fairly well. FYI, it is the logical-emotional difference in communication style that we have struggled with, and at this point, looks like we are not going to become exclusive.
As your site states that communication style is so important. It's great to be able to quickly assess that and it's fascinating that you can get equally accurate information from only a birth date that the extensive MyersBriggs Personality Indicator does with an extensive questionnaire."
Lee
San Diego, CA.
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It pointed very clearly to the source of the breakdown...
"I must to tell you that I am very impressed with MatchMatrix. I checked out several of the past men in my life using your system and it was uncanny how it pointed very clearly to the source of the breakdown in each of my past relationships.
My ex - well, we clearly didn't communicate and there wasn't really a sexual connection - but we were amazing working together and had similar money consciousness - his communication talking style was logical and mine is emotional. Then a lover I've had for many years that keeps on going and going - well we connected on all levels except money (thank heavens he had that part down) - but that was the only place there were challenges - he was alsmost a perfect match. And then there was a man who was a perfect fit, except we knew it wouldn't be forever as he was 23 years younger and wanted a family - he was exactly the same lifestyle traits as me, and it was the most nourishing, fun and easy relationship I had ever had.
A current fella I am dating - he's totally turned on to me - communication and activity, but I am not really turned on to him - and again that's what MatchMatrix points to. Thanks for stepping out there with something so new - it's very encouraging to know that the reasons we are not compatible with others sometimes has alot more to do with things we don't even know about. I look forward to finding my perfectly aligned partner and thanks to the insights of MatchMatrix I know I will know him when I find him. Bless you!"
Kay
San diego, CA
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I am blown away by how insightful this matrix is.
"Thank you so much for mapping my relationship. This really reflects a great deal of thought and time, and I am very grateful. Again, I am blown away by how insightful this matrix is."
Mary Fain
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...he's a bit more at peace with the idea that he's done nothing wrong! We are going to work on it.
"We've been married for 10 years. We're incompatible in all 4 areas. I infuriate my husband with interjections and questions for clarification--he frequently feels like I'm putting him down if I make an unconscious correction. My husband often feels like I should know what he wants/needs/is thinking, when of course I can't read minds. He needs to take time to think things through, when I tend to rush headway into them, make a decision and act on it, quick. I am, also, always thinking and analyzing things, which drives my husband crazy. Movies are a perfect example--he hates seeing them with me because I'm always analyzing every little thing, and he just wants to see a movie. Different friends and interests--definitely. It seems like we literally have NOTHING in common with each other....and that is exactly what our MatchMatrix report says.
I married with the mindset that it would work or else, probably because of the way my own parents' divorce affected me. At least this helps both my husband and I understand our differences. After showing this to him at least he's a bit more at peace with the idea that he's done nothing wrong! We are going to work on it. Thank you again!"
Lorie
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I would not have thought it possible. Thanks MatchMatrix!!!
"My life has never been more fulfilling than it is now living in the relationship of my dreams. I looked at MatchMatrix because I immediately saw the benefit for my coaching clients. I was totally surprised how accurately it described the relationship I am in now as well as the failed relationships of the past. I found the accuracy to be uncanny!
The best part, I knew I had found my life mate. Not only did MatchMatrix support it, but our profiles offered us insights that make it even better. I would not have thought it possible. Thanks MatchMatrix!!!"
Scott deMoulin,
Las Vegas, NV
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We saved ourselves time and money and I got a genuine male friend as an added bonus!"
"I received the most unusual email on my dating site. This guy told me about MatchMatrix, gave me his birth date and asked me for mine. "Wow, this is novel, and bold," I thought. But, he explained that he didn't want either of us to waste our time, so I figured there's nothing to lose and I emailed him my birth date.
He emailed back with a very short explanation that basically said "You are probably a great gal, but no way will it work for us." At first, this kind of set me off. Then I checked out MatchMatrix, and I thought, this is very cool! BTW, the guy and I have become pretty good friends, and we both agree there could have never been much more. We saved ourselves time and money and I got a genuine male friend as an added bonus!"
Leslie Davidson
San Diego, CA
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