MatchMatrix Compatibility Trait | Engager Modifier

Engager Modifier ("Charisma")

The Engager modifier gives the person a charismatic personality and usually a brightness to their face.  They easily draw people to them because they are approachable, friendly and enjoy connecting with other people.  They present themselves with style, self-confidence and, as a result, they usually enjoy a wide variety of friends.  The Engager modifier is most often a valuable benefit to the person.  It is a "door opening" advantage that compliments the four MatchMatrix lifestyle traits.

Consider the effect of the Engager when someone also has other modifiers.  If they also have the Controller modifier the Engager may give a slickness to their personality.  It sets the stage for the con man or puts a velvet cover on the hammer that characterizes the Controller.  The Engager certainly furthers the cause of the Manipulator modifier in its ability to make people feel good about being worked.  The Engager is complimentary to the Achiever to support the person accomplishing their goals.  The  Engager smooths out the affect of the Perfectionist modifier.  The Perfectionist is often a loner who has a hard time committing to a relationship.  The Engager dimension to their personality opens the door to new possibilities.  People are drawn to them so their opportunities for many different kinds of relationships are enhanced.  Their loner characteristic will be alleviated.