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This section has been designed to supply you with all the information you need to fully understand your MatchMatrix report. 

The information presented in these reports have saved 30-year marriages from self destruction, brought distanced siblings together with renewed love and understanding, helped business partners better communicate with their employees and each other and have provided countless people with unique guidance for choosing who to date.

You will discover an extensive discussion on Attractions that goes far beyond your attraction report.  Yes, we all know the feeling of a powerful attraction. Just where they lead us and how they do it, is the subject of this section.

You will find a detailed description of each of the 4 MatchMatrix Lifestyle traits.  Each person has one of two possible descriptions for each trait:

The Communication Style which is experienced in each person's talking style is the most important Lifestyle trait.  Do you have the Emotional Talking Style or the Logical Talking Style? Find out the details about the communication styles here  
 

Do you and your partner run at the same speed?  Do you experience a good mental connection with each other?  These questions are answered by whether you are a Super active or a Moderate Active person?   Understand the distinctions by clicking here. 
 

Each person has a specific Sexual Response that has a major influence on the success of a romantic partnership. We all have a sense of what it means to be malnourished. What happens when that is applied to your sex life?  How does that relate to one partner who has a Mental/Emotional Sexual Response and the other who has a Physical Sexual Response? Are your sexually malnourished or wonderfully fulfilled? Find out here. 
 

Statistically, the most common cause for the failure of relationships are sex or money. Money issues are clearly distinguishable from emotional challenges because money is tangible. The issues are not simply whether or not you have enough money.  Money is important for security and provides the means to live and love comfortably; it also triggers issues of dominance and control. Learn how a person with Conservative Financial logic differs from someone who has the Non-Conservative Financial Logic here.

Good compatibility sources from having the same trait as another person.  If you and your partner have differences in any of the four Lifestyle Traits then it is important that you read the CONFLICTS section.  Simply being aware of your specific differences is a good start towards a new depth of understanding and compassion.  You will be able to respect and honor the unique and special personality traits of your partner which is the only way to fully embrace, love and enjoy each person for who they are.  Understanding the effect of the differences will also provide the means to him as are to let go of relationships that are not supportive. 

The 4 Lifestyle Traits are definitely the cornerstones of your personality.  There are also 5 Personality Modifiers that offer an even greater understanding of the individual.  You can have no modifiers, one or multiple modifiers.  Individual or multiple modifiers may complement or compete with the basic personality presented in the Lifestyle traits. The modifiers may be experienced as the source of behaviors that are unusual, awkward, aggressive, alluring, insecure or possibly needy. Understanding the effect of the modifiers in conjunction with the Lifestyle traits, provides you with the ability to embrace, honor and respect rather than to accuse, blame or create guilt. Not everyone has modifiers so don't feel left out if you do not. But be aware that if you or your partner has one or more modifiers, they will impact your relationship.

Here is a Sample Report to review.

Do you have questions or would you like a better understanding of the terms we use? Go to our FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions) Page or click on the MatchMatrix Glossary.